words

The thing that really seperates humans from any other animal is the words to express . for this very reason i love the slogan of Airtel " express yourself" . i believe we live only to express what we feel , observe and understand . We communicate in various forms , but words are the most accurate forms of expression ... well here is the catch what if you come in contact with a person who dosent know your language and whose language you dont know . then i believe you have to trust your instincts for communicating . but do i need to meet such a person to realise this , nope . Words dont always express what we feel , they just dont have the power , maybe one can impress someone through proficient usage of a language , but i wonder if the words can express everything . They create misunderstanding because people think that they are the most accurate form of expression , thus understand the superficial meaning and not the feeling they are meant to express . I wish everyone could go back to their instincts to understand the feelings rather than the words ...

Bulla ki Jaanaa

man this is a good song and so i wud like to share it with others tooooooooooo.


Bulla, I know not who I am
Bulla, I know not who I am
Nor am I the believer in mosque
Nor am I in idol worship
Nor am in the pure or the impure
Nor am I in the Vedas

Nor am I in the intoxicants
Nor am I in the carefree deviant
Nor am I union nor grief
Nor am I in the pure/impure
Nor am I of the water nor of the land
Nor am I fire nor air
Bulla, I know not who I am

Nor am I Arabic nor from Lahore
Nor am I the Indian city of Nagaur
Nor am I Hindu nor a Peshawari turk
Nor did I create the difference of faith
Nor did I create Adam-Eve
Nor did I name myself
Beginning or end I know just the self
Do not recognise ’’the other one’’
There’s none wiser than I
Who is this Bulla Shah
Bulla, I know not who I am

truth expressed in the statement
man is nothing as compared to this amazing place called world

no matter what my faith is i was not really given the choice to choose it
i have been given a religion when i was born , i even never knew what it means to me . but yet there are children who have been killed in riots becoz they belonged to a particular community

what role can i play in this world
i have no importance in the workng of this world
this world can go on even when i am not there
what happyness or sorrow can i provide to others . what power have i got
may be i am made of elements but what is my existance without these elements
what am i . i am not just a part of this world i am nothing without it.
what am i oh my senses can not think

i belong to this world
i cant belong to any particular place
what makes me belong to any particular place

and yet its the human s who has created the difference based on faith
he does not realise what his existance means
why is he here
he just knows himself and others like him
he does not realise that there such a big world which also exists
his mind is blind
he can rule the world
he has the might to do so ........ does he?

who else has the might i can see no one


huh we are living in a fools world , no one realises what we have .
forget the fact why we have it.

if you believe that christ really came to this world and got crucified to wipe of the sins of humans , now even he is scared of coming to this world full of crazy lunatics

the real existance known to us as nature is ready to make man realise what his life is.

batta bande teri razaa kya hai.

restaurants

well today i went with my family to a restaurant like any weekend .
but for the first time i actually thot about it and found it to be quite interesting a place .
well i earlier considered it to be a place where you just have food and come out thats it.
but actually its more than that .
actually its more than a meeting place than an eating place .

it is place for friendz to freak out.

it is a place for couples to have their private talks.

it is a day out for a family whose members are busy with their work for most of the time .

sometimes people related due to business meet and lunch .

sometimes it is a place to celebrate any kind of success .

sometimes it is the place where the mister tries to calm down his angry mistress .

it may be a place to just take your mind out of something bothering u for long , satisfy your appetite and just have a food for thought .

and it is also a place to do what i did today .......
just look at a variety of people who visit the place for so many different reasons .


by the way something very interesting that we talked about at the restaurant .

my sister said that mumbai has the largest number of restaurants in the country.

to this my mother said that about 70% of the people there have never gone to a restaurant and yet they don't have an urge to go to such a place . they are quite happy with eating the vada paw , paw bhaji , bhel , chat etc. that they get to eat on streets .

well frankly enough even i enjoyed eating all those stuff while taking a long walk on the marine drive , or tasting all these delicacies while trolling on the muddy chowpatti . i too admit that i would love to do that again instad of going to a wonderfully beautiful lounge with well reknowned food . wat say ???

romance

well being romantic is often taken as being very loving and passionate to a person.
well it is true but a romantic person is one who is actually loves and is very passionate about life. someone who looks at life in a new way everyday , every moment.
someone who is very careless yet very caring .someone who overlooks the bad part of life and strives to live only with the good part . someone who wanders through hills, green fields and roads unknown in quest of something that he can not explain . the mind-set is such that everyone seems to be trust-worthy . no regrets for whatever happens . the person seems to be very sentimental about the least important things . the people that he meets is just out of sheer pleasure and not because of any interest .
well u might be considering that i am talking of any character from a fairy tale or some story . but no really people like these do exist in between us . Infact between the age of 15 and 17 i too consider myself to have been that kinda person . ofcourse due to some reasons (not looking insane to others) i restrained myself from doing some of the things that were said above . infact i feel that it is the age that when evryone can be like that . and some people even stay like that after they move ahead in life < and i wud admit that i wud seriously envy such a person if we ever met >
well now i know that i have changed quite a bit and going back to that kinda life is going to be like suicidal. but anyways i know that such a person is always going to be inside me and i will never let die in the hope that some day i wud once again travel though the world of my own . what say???

listening

well listening is a very important thing in one's life. Actually it is mainly by listening that one gains most of her knowledge . it is a way we communicate with others. It is the most important way in which we can use our hearing . Just imagine that what would have this this world been had no one had the ability to hear. Just think there would have been no music . In fact sound in itself is such a beautiful thing.
in the sounds of nature we can feel the passion of our mother earth.
but not all people are lucky enough. There are many a deaf people in this world . I always spare a thought for them .
but we people who can hear too don't use our ability in the right manner. i mean to say that we don't pay heed to what is the power of this ability.
many a times we encounter people who speak a lot but we do not pay heed to them. we just feel that don't they ever get tired . like someone u meet on a morning walk or during transport , i mean someone whom u don't know very well but still tend to meet them almost everyday. u might feel that what sins did u commit that u landed up meeting such irritating people like these . But do u wonder how your listening might mean to them. like it could be that no one else pays attention to them and they have so many thoughts in their mind that they want to let out.Or maybe that there is something in your personality that they always searched for in their friends but never found it ,so they are fond of u and just by listening to them u might be giving them immense pleasure , & u cant be unfortunate if u can give someone pleasure.

Also such people are very caring about you. u might just find a friend whom u can always trust on in bad situations.

actually sometimes only listening is not good enough, one also needs to understand what he is listening to . like i often talk to a friend of mine , who considers himself to be a good listener and admits the importance of being a good listener, but what happens is that he is never able to understand why i am saying what i am saying to him and what kind of a response i expect to get from him.

so all u people please realize the power of listening and please understand how you can best utilize this power of yours.

education is not about competion but knowledge

yes it is competition that has lead this world to reach the heights that it has reached,
people tried to prove that they are better than the others.
and thus went on to improve the way they think
a healthy competition is always useful to the world
since i have not witnessed to much of life and i am not studying any book that has history in its name so i can't tell you with examples.
but i suppose that it is true
but now a days this term competition is bein held responsible for the downfall of students
but really if it is good then how can we consider it to be bad.
well the reason that people have considered it to be bad is that the competition is not healthy.
students do not know what is competition
parents and teachers tell them that the higher they score the better they are... well or by some other way they get this notion (since i would never say a good teacher wud say such a thing to any student but for parents they certainly do say so:but we shud look at their point of view too.they work hard to make their wards study, they want them to achieve success, and spend a hasselfree life where they can live independently & to some extent they want their children to make them proud in society and being ahead in competition seems to be a sureshot way).so they start competition at a very small age.
they are not mature enough to think about this .
so they take competition to be that they can remember more and write correct answers in exams and get better marks.
then as they grow up what their motive is still to get more marks in exams and for this they study only the things that they wud require in exams.
they are happy to get more marks even if their knowledge is not complete.
that is ok for now but what about the future.
exams are to be taken to enter into institutes that provide professional courses .
what to do to crack these exams?
wel go about it in a systematic manner
how do i do that?
huh join coaching classes.
what do these coaching classes do?
oh nothing basically .... they just give u some basic things on which the exam is based and then they give u question papers to solve that will help u to get accustomed to the questions asked ....
they will give u techniques to solve the questions.
but y do v have uto use such techniques ... well even those people who teach can't answer that....
this is not develpoment of brain!!!!!!
this is just proving that practice makes man perfect.!!!!
but perfect in what ????
huh i know i am cynical!!!!!
now when students get into the institutes then they are not in the condition to attain proper knowledge , thus the institutes teach them in a manner that they have studied till now,
now the teachers say that they must understand what they are to study
they now try to make the students understand the practicality of their subject but mostly in vain,,,...
they are taught some general stuff there which is basically dependent on common sense......
but the students think that they are learning a lot....
and studies go on in this way.....................
then they get placement in good firms .....
now this is the place where they really get to learn ...
this place is not about competition for beginners
so they all know that they have to learn the same stuff
and they know they can't compete bcoz they are clueless about the stuff they are being taught....
thus this is where they learn about their trade
had their not been such unhealthy competition earlier then the institutes wud have taught what they are learning in the firm
this is the way things go

well then what about healthy competition
now healthy competition is when people stop being childish and begins to grow their knowledge
yes people come togeather and start exchanging views about the things that they learn.
they share their knowledge and try to explore this world through their subjects
(infact it was this scenario in the earlier centuries that lead to the emergence of new subjects)
this is how healthy competition leads to growth of knowledge

i too pity for myself to have fallen fallen into this pit.
else i wud have had a better knowledge of how to express my thoughts in words and thus this post wud have been more clear and interesting to read and i cud have included what ever i wish to tell ya.

spirits

do you believe in spirits???????
well i strongly feel that that they exist.....
but not in the way we think they do
i feel they can not directly effect us
they can't do anything they want
but yes they have the power to change the way our lives are going to be....
just think of this for a minute that what are we
we are a complex structure made up of five elements that actually make up this world
when we die our body gets seperated back into those five elements
thus what is left is a spirit
and may have no shape or size.....
infact it can not be defined in terms of shape and size because of the fact that it is not a form of matter
it is not affected by the gravitational force ....
it is somthing thinner than air
i mean it is made up of what is their in space
a spirit is made up of what fills up vacuum.
yes vacuum is not an empty space....
it is filled up by something that can just vanish into air....
it can only be trapped in the greatest creation of god....
BRAIN..................
yes brain is the only thing stong enough to hold spirit
it has so much power that has yet not been completelty untapped
by using 8% of this brain man has changed the structure of this world
actually no matter how advanced the technology may become it can never understand what brain is and what it does
there have been very big projects on brains working
but everytime scientist thought that they had a breakthrough they have never been able to get a complete structure of brain
the reason is very simple
this brain is a connection between spiritual and materialistic world
therefore looking it only materilistically won't ever help
therefore we need our physical and spiritual part to work togeather to understand it

and let me tell you that the day this is done there will not be any single thing left to be revealed by this human race.................

relationship

well all that i can say is don't give anyone the power to hurt you in any kind of relationship.
u know that way you will never feel bad about ur life.
never leave things unsaid ................................. always try to fill up those blanks
yes may be you may feel that the other person understands what you feel
thats ok if things are kept unsaid in public
but if you talk face to face never leave ............... to be filled by the other person
coz you never know what's going on with the other person
be poen hearted never think that what will be his reaction if i say so...
dont sympathise with anyone --- empathise with them
try to feel what they are going thru.
trust me its one of the biggest assets for any relationship to prosper.
never try to impose yor thoughts on others .
discuss what you feel about any particular issue.
never directly oppose any third person.
infact always try not to create any opinion about any person
becoz u know a person only by the way he interacts with you.
well above anything else use ur common sense....

one more bonus that i wud like to give is in case that mayu be you meet some one who was once related to you and suddenly you get in touch with him then try not to supply a questionaire to him. that is don't really ask him anything .... just go on as if continuing from where you left....
if he is willing to share something do encourage it......

that it for now...... LOL!!!!!

oh my god

i just can't believe that i am already into the third month of 2005
the time is really racing at the best of its speed
well i cant stop it from running so what to do .
just run along with it.
really god has not armed me with more power than that.
as i talk of god whenever i am in trouble and i tell someone about it then they say that
its all your fault that you are doing what you are
but then why shud i really depend upon god to help me . like i made a mess so i shud take the responsibility of it. and when i say take responsibility then i mean that the mistake should not happen again. i shud stop others from making that mistake too.
atleast when i have been told that i am makin a mistake then i should have a conscious of stopping me from doing it again and again.
i hope that everyone agrees with me till now.
then why the hell is everyone on a spree to commit crimes that he can not rectify.
why is so many human beings destroying this world .
even with there being so MANY campaigns all over the world there is increase in global warming.
why are there so many of the species that get extinct each year.
is this what their creator had destined for them
well i think not
whoever says that whatever happens is in accordance to god 's will.
he is wrong
god never wud have thought that what he created will one day be destroyed by one of his own creations
many wud argue that we dont have the power to rectify the mistakes that we have made ,
but you idots when god gave you such a big power . your such a powerful brain
and you misused it then how can you expect to get more power
man today thinks of the future and is afraid that someday the robots will control this and is horrified by the image then just think what does god about his creation called human
just like human tries to develop more abilities in a robots similarly god took pleasure in developing a human being
but to his dismay the trust that god had shown in man was not worth it
man has betrayed god
but one thing that man has forgotten is that god has one thing that he dosen't have ----------
POWER
yes and it has unleashed the nature of all the bindings that it had ever put on it.
man has lived all this years on the tolerance of nature
but now even god is ashamed of his mistake.
he too thinks why did i make a man
how cud i not think that my biggest creation cud turn out to be my biggest failure .
so now the time has come that god has decided that man no longer deserves to live and he has now set the nature free to take its revenge.
but the nature to will go the way the humans went.
it is going to seek revenge slowly in installments.
so keep waiting for it you idiots.
huh why shud you wait ,infact time is running out of our hands.

you do what you do in the name of commerce but do you really think that you can justify ur acts
i think not
your conscious is dead and soon you will be too.

sport is amazing thing

just two weeks back i was feeling that i am leading a dead mans life. really nothing happening. just the same old books the same old chapters the same theories...... specially after the exams were over. then i recently started playing table tennis in my college and really its an addictive game i tell you. jist feel like going on playing it. one game after the other.... you never get bored
its a great break really...... infact for the last two weeks i have just been there in the common room playing hardly attending any classes . in midst of all the studies this gives you some thrill some fun . like its not only and activity that you do . but the whole thing is actually about all the fun that we have with each other.
actually what i learned was that everything has a mixed blend of power and control.when i began i used to hit the ball so hard that it never stayed on the bord and on other ocassions i was so cautious that it didn't even reach the other court. but slowly and with time you get the right blend and you begin to open up your mind.and it is then that you feel good.
really my classmates say what do i do by not attending the classes but they may not understand that what i do is actually gonna make me feel more enthuiastic about life so thats how i am supposed to b going. this is the key to success so free your mind.ofcourse dont forget the blend.

a therapy

you know what human is such a small piece of some stuff but yet he does so many things .
like really i sometimes imagine that what is a human ,a complex thing made up of stuff that can easily get mixed in the soil,and yet you see he has achieved so much.
after thinking a lot i came to the conclusion that what really is in favour of this species is the brain.
its the brain that has all the power .so you gotta be tough from the brain.
well as i realised this i have been doing some things to develop my brain.
some kinda therapy that i dont think has any scientific explanation and may seem to be wierd to many.but i believe in it. They are not something very big which might bring about any miraculous change.they are small things and even may not cause any change.but i believe in them and that is what is important.
i have been doing such stuff for a long time and i regret not having been blogging so that i cud share them with others.but now that i am i will tell you what ever i can remember.
so the recent one that i have started is some thing like this.
most of the people have to climb stairs.they generally look at their feet to see where they are landing them.
now what i have started to do is that i keep looking strsight that is parallel to the ground while climbing stairs.that is i am looking at the stairs i am going to climb and with each step a take i am looking at the higher staircase . as i do this i am not holding the siderailing .i am not takin any support from any thing . in the beginning my feet seem to be trembling a little bit becoz there was a fear i my mind that my feet may not land on the base but at the corner but now a days i am more assured about where my feet are going . you can do the same while comng down the stairs but by skiping a base as climbing down is more easy.
ok i might sound like a crack pot but i dont care about what you think ,i feel good after doing it.